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The strangest paradox of avoidant attachment is this: the very behaviors that pushed them away are often what they will exhibit once you stop striving...

People who genuinely love you and care about your wellbeing will pay attention to what you require from the relationship in order to feel safe,...

You’ve tried everything to keep them close, haven’t you? You send the first messages. You forgive without insisting on explanations. You tuck away your own...

“Productivity crash” is a phrase I coined to describe a recurring pattern I witness frequently: people who survived childhood trauma can achieve extraordinary feats—performing almost...

Você já ficou em silêncio com alguém e se pegou obcecado pelo que se passa na mente deles? Estou falando da pessoa que você está vendo —...

You can sense him pulling back. It starts small: texts that once arrived quickly now take hours; plans that used to be made now evaporate...

Can we start practicing a simple rule: if you feel something, say it? Men, in particular, often struggle with this — acting as if our...

there is a powerful link between childhood abuse and neglect—especially emotional neglect—and a recurring, painful pattern in adulthood of investing all your affection into an...

When parents are so wrapped up in themselves that they barely notice or truly know their children, it’s common for those children to grow up...

Why is it that even when you pitch in around the house she still seems unappreciative? That’s an important question and there are several possible...

Everyone seems to be using the word dysregulation these days—but what does it actually refer to? And what can you do when it happens to...

What might happen if we invited people into a lab and asked them to write about a painful event they had never fully talked through...

Anyone who has been involved with an avoidant partner has likely experienced a disorienting shift in the relationship: warmth cools, conversations turn curt, and small...

Okay. If you withdraw during an argument—something you might not usually do—I’ll be brief. But if you’re like me, there are moments in the middle...

Quando você está lidando com alguém que tem um estilo de apego evitativo, não são as palavras que geralmente o desorientam — é o silêncio pesado....

I notice recurring patterns after reading hundreds of messages from people who follow this channel. One of the most dangerous signs that someone is losing...

A major challenge for people raised in homes marked by abuse and neglect — and this will resonate for many — is that mean, dismissive...

Okay, today we have an extraordinarily special guest. For those who haven’t met her yet, Dr. Sue Johnson is a distinguished psychologist, author, speaker and...

Here are practical steps and additional information to help you recognize, respond to, and move away from emotionally abusive dynamics while protecting your well‑being. Validate...

Oh my god — nothing I do is ever enough. Wait, what did you just say? I said it doesn’t matter what I try; it’s...

Talvez as pessoas tenham te rotulado como carente quando o que realmente aconteceu foi você ter sido deixado sozinho(a) muitas vezes. Talvez você tenha sido dito(a) para se acalmar...

Quer saber por que as pessoas às vezes se encolhem perto de você, desligam o que você diz ou se irritam antes mesmo de você falar? Não é porque haja...

Há um silêncio peculiar que se instala em você quando alguém com quem você já sentiu uma conexão profunda desaparece sem aviso. Você para de esperar por seu...

O que estou ensinando aos homens é como se apresentarem como eles mesmos — genuínos, transparentes, verdadeiros, dispostos a serem vulneráveis — e praticarem essa honestidade...