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You may have seen the many disclaimers lately in my courses, videos, and their descriptions — I’ve been clearer than ever about one thing: I’m...

When someone with an avoidant attachment style treats you with disrespect, it doesn’t mean you’re worthless — often it means the opposite. Their behavior frequently...

People often misunderstand this completely. You can request to be treated with respect, but you cannot compel someone else to respect you. It’s surprising, yet...

Avoidant partners don’t step back because they don’t care — they step back because closeness can overwhelm them. Breathe. If you love someone who withdraws,...

Okay — question of the day: my girlfriend usually expresses herself from a more masculine energy. Is there anything I can do to help her...

Here’s the reality: people with an avoidant attachment style aren’t bad at loving — they’re simply more discreet about it. Society often labels them as...

Listen: being in a relationship with an avoidant man is rarely what it appears to be. The real risk isn’t that he doesn’t feel love...

솔직해 하자: 당신이 이곳에 있는 이유는 이 상황에 대해 뭔가 잘못되었다는 느낌을 받았기 때문이야. 마침내 당신을 깨우는 사람을 찾고, 당신은 경계를 풀고, 시작해...

Okay — let’s begin 2023 by reminding ourselves of some basic truths about relationships. One: you deserve respect, kindness, appreciation, consideration and someone who genuinely...

맙소사, 자기야 — 오늘 사면 원래 50%에다가 25%를 얹어줄 거야, 알았지?

나는 마침내 그 기묘한 감정, 행동, 그리고 반복되는 실수를 설명하는 단어를 들은 날을 결코 잊지 못할 것입니다...

긴 이메일을 절약하기 위해 말씀드리지만, 남자와 관계를 맺고 있는데 끊임없이 보이지 않거나, 듣지 못하거나, 소홀하거나, 일관되게 무시된다면...

아내가 다시 성관계를 갖도록 하는 것이 얼마나 간단하게 끝났는지 조금 부끄럽습니다. 이는 속임수에 관한 것이 아니었습니다 - 저는 결코...

남자가 30분 동안 출퇴근하고 와서 또 30분을 기대하는 느낌이 얼마나 둔감하게 느껴질 수 있는지에 대한 영상을 만들었습니다...

Hey babe, can we go grab that plant I spotted at the nursery? Well, hold on — I was just wondering, don’t you think we...

Arguably the single biggest destroyer of relationships is emotional dysregulation: when we become flooded, anxious, or furious and fear that everything inside us is about...

Learn what walkaway wife syndrome is, why emotional withdrawal happens, the warning signs, and how couples can address issues before divorce becomes final.

If you often find yourself zoning out, snapping at others, or feeling your heart race for no obvious reason, your body may be trying to...

Earlier I spoke about why I don’t think it’s a good idea to send your husband certain clips of mine if he tends to feel...

When an avoidant suddenly experiences the real possibility of losing you, everything between you shifts. A relationship once governed by distance and control begins to...

Your thoughts can deceive you when you fall headlong for a distant, solitary person who bluntly declares they do not want a committed relationship. That...

Should men cover the bill on a first date with a woman? If you’re a woman hoping to find a lifelong partner, my answer is...

Too often men are portrayed as the ones who always initiate sex, yet in about 30 percent of heterosexual relationships the woman actually has the...

Emotionally healthy people tend to run from avoidant partners. Yet when childhood neglect primes you, you can become especially drawn to someone who keeps pulling...