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ナルシストとの関係から抜け出す唯一の正当な道は、去ることです。居続けることは何の利益にもならないでしょう—あなたのニーズは満たされ…

聞くこと： 回避型の人々は愛そのものに恐怖を感じているのではなく、間違った人に何年も心を捧げることに恐怖を感じているのです。 あまりにも頻繁に彼らは誤ってラベル付けされています...

なぜ、子供たちが傷つけられているのを見たと訴えられた人々は、ほとんどの場合、知っていたことを認めたり、彼らを保護できなかったことについて謝罪したりしないのでしょうか？なぜ...

Some people are utterly unsure what is acceptable to say or do in front of their children when parents behave without boundaries — parading around...

Hey — let’s unpack a couple of double standards, one common among men and one among women, so no one gets singled out. Men, take...

Okay—this video aims to explain why an avoidant partner might shut down during an argument, how you can respond in those moments, and what steps...

Some people are completely drained by narcissistic loved ones: while some try to maintain contact and others break off ties entirely, many find themselves stuck...

Roughly one out of every three people — and a far larger portion among younger folks — report feeling so overwhelmed by stress that most...

You don’t have to express gratitude for things people are simply expected to do — that seems reasonable, right? The trouble with that line of...

Why isn’t saying “I forgive you” enough to simply move forward? People often tell themselves that the past is behind them and that forgiveness should...

Have you ever wondered how people with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style change as they grow older? Do they mellow and become more open-hearted with time,...

If you ended a relationship with someone you truly cared about and now find yourself doubting that choice, wondering whether another chance is deserved, this...

Every so often I post a video that really riles up a particular crowd — in this instance, folks who follow New Age ideas. I’m...

Being romantically fixated on someone out of reach can quietly destroy your life. It can act like a drug—initially intoxicating and comforting, convincing you that...

すべての回避型は、5つの異なる段階のどこかに位置します。彼らが述べる理由を聞くことで、あなたがどの段階に対処しているかを知ることができます...

If as a child you had to take on the responsibilities of an adult, that was emotional neglect—plain and simple. You were forced into a...

It’s obvious to avoid people who have betrayed you and sucked away the love you once felt, but sometimes there are reasons to pause before...

If you’re using psychological terminology to excuse sneaking around, attempting to undermine other people’s relationships, and deceiving those who care about you — and then...

Here’s a practical tip many of us forget: you cannot truly resolve conflict with someone who is emotionally immature. Picture this — they do something...

Quick quiz: do you have to be psychic to be in tune with her? No — but you do need to be proactive about recognizing...

彼らは歩き去る—そして何もなくなって、静寂が訪れる。あなたは彼らのフィードをスクロールし、彼らは元気そうで、むしろ自由そうで、友達とのブランチで笑顔を浮かべている、…

Listen: marriage can sometimes feel even more isolating than single life, and it’s easy to be swept up in the emotions of the wedding day....

Sometimes people fling the word “privilege” like an accusation — a put-down that lets the accuser feel morally superior and even use shame to discredit...

If the grown-ups around you ignored you as a child—if they were neglectful, brushed you off, or simply absent—you might still carry the experience of...