Ірина Журавльова

The reason I intentionally work to acknowledge my partner’s emotions is that her feelings matter to me, even when I don’t share them. I choose...

Do you know what my underlying aim is? To stop the power struggles that damage so many relationships. Too often couples fall into unbalanced dynamics...

You don’t have to wait until someone has hurt you ten times before you accept the truth. If warning signs appear at the start of...

People often ask me which of my videos about trauma I consider most impactful, and there's one I want to bring to your attention now....

Right, I've stumbled across a relationship trick you really ought to try. I can't quite explain why it works, but when I start a conversation with...

Did they tell you they weren’t ready, yet behaved as if everything were fine? Did they make you feel as though your desire for consistency...

I'm not sure what dating looks like these days, but one thing I'm certain of: you deserve someone who actively pursues you. It frustrates me...

Ever wondered why someone who's ignored you for weeks suddenly floods your phone the moment you stop caring? Why they take days to reply...

If you had to pick the single strongest sign that a marriage is headed for divorce, what would you guess? Many people would assume it's….

No one goes into a partnership hoping it will turn into a housemate arrangement, so why does it so often end up that way? It...

Here's a question: can your ego tolerate someone being genuinely blunt with you? Looking back at why one of my relationships collapsed, I now see...

Self-differentiation means being authentically yourself and not absorbing the emotional noise or “wi-fi” coming from others. The more you can remain true to yourself while...

Growing up in a chaotic, dysfunctional household where emotional neglect — and sometimes abuse — was common can scar your capacity to form secure bonds....

Life's riddled with friction. People can be 'arsh. Situations get awkward. Your car malfunctions. Sometimes you must let people down, apologise, walk away, commit,...

Call it what it is: your confusion isn’t a sign that you didn’t try hard enough — it’s the result of someone pulling away in...

Imagine growing up with a parent who constantly made life revolve around them. They ignored what you needed, dismissed your attempts to speak up, and...

When you find yourself trapped in a job you can’t stand, people around you assume you’re simply exhausted, overworked, or in need of a break....

There comes a time when the person who always believed they held the upper hand suddenly feels the weight of silence pressing down. The avoidant...

Hey—you. Yes, you. Stop scrolling. We need to have a talk. We need to address that sensation you’ve been carrying. That tight knot in your...

If your former partner was narcissistic, it’s very likely that even after the relationship ended, you still feel its effects — those relationships are destabilizing,...

Hi everyone — Mel here. I want to kick off today’s video by sharing something that happened last night. It was a Tuesday, one of...

This episode is sponsored by “corn.” Alright, someone warned me that if I say the p-word this clip might get pulled, so from here on...

Estimates suggest roughly 15% of people experienced significant trauma in childhood—depending on how you define “trauma”. Many of those people don’t even realise they were...

Many people write in saying that boundaries never work with narcissists or that their partner simply ignores them, so this needs addressing. One crucial caveat:...