Ірина Журавльова

Log each incident with date, time and witness – a simple spreadsheet reduces cognitive distortion. If three separate instances of lying, controlling behaviour or humiliation...

Concrete recommendation: If messaging frequency reaches 3–5 exchanges per week and replies include follow-up questions, propose a casual in-person meet within two to four weeks...

Clear recommendation: Inviter is expected to cover costs for an initial meetup as a practical rule; if inviter asked, responsibility leans toward them, though mutual...

Practical moves: smile for 2–4 seconds, let a genuine laugh follow at least once, and open with an observation rather than a compliment about appearance...

Concrete recommendation: require three clear confirmations within six weeks – shared account access or written agreement on joint bills, a specific plan for living arrangements,...

Concrete rule: offer a secondary username (Signal, Telegram, Instagram handle) or continue platform messages until at least 2–3 substantive exchanges or a short live call....

Adopt a 21-day no-contact rule: mute or delete profiles, stop messaging, and tell two close friends you’ll reassess after three weeks; do not speak to...

Write down five concrete requirements and test them immediately: job stability over two years, clear financial red flags, daily communication pattern, visible friendship network, and...

Do activities together, track minutes, record intensity; evidence from an aarp analysis published in a peer-reviewed journal links partnered living with a ~15% lower cardiovascular...

Почніть з 15-хвилинної щотижневої відсутності пристроїв - конкретної рутини, яка дає дозвіл говорити без переривань, знижує інстинкт утримувати...

Concrete step: set a specific time, name one primary goal, and limit the meeting to two topics – this reduces escalation and improves the chance...

Use a clinical checklist: list six items to arrange before leaving the house – reservation confirmation, directions, budget cap, emergency contact, backup location, and an...

Data: a 2021 study tracked 1,200 participants across three towns and found that when people moved from messaging to an in-person meeting within seven days,...

Immediate action: Save all messages, screenshots and timestamps; if a partner txted threats or confessed an affair, lock down accounts, change passwords and inform a...

Open with one concise sentence that references something you found on their profile and ends with an either/or choice; people who want quick interaction answer...

Document every incident: screenshots, timestamps, voicemail, witness names and dates. If insulting or demeaning comments appear three or more times within 30 days, treat the...

I recommend this novel to readers who want honest, human conflicts without epic scope – paperback ~312 pages, audiobook ~9h12m, and a small number of...

Begin by securing three financial pillars: a six-month emergency fund, 10–15% of gross income directed to retirement accounts, and a written budget that allocates at...

Зробіть це зараз: заплануйте голосовий або відеодзвінок тривалістю 45–60 хвилин протягом 7–10 днів і використовуйте лише whatsapp для узгодження зустрічі. Контрольовані спостереження та...

Implement within 36 months: fund 150 perinatal psychiatry positions, increase IVF subsidies to $10,000 per cycle for households below 200% of poverty line, require postpartum...

Інвестуйте в три видимі пріоритети – кар’єрні цілі, близьке коло спілкування та регулярний догляд за собою – і застосовуйте правило відповіді протягом 48–72 годин: не...

Assign 0–3 points to each prompt and treat a follow-up meeting as mandatory: a total of 12 or higher signals sufficient alignment to pursue joint...

Використовуйте шість запитань на кожну зустріч: три відкриті запитання, два питання-слідкування з цікавості, одна рефлексивна розмова; обмежуйте відповіді 90 секундами, передбачте 30 секунд на реакцію. Це...

Правило 1 – обмежіть час і ескалуйте. Обмежте перегляд і спілкування в програмах до 45 хвилин на тиждень; встановіть таймер і ведіть записи сеансів. Після того, як у вас було три...