Ірина Журавльова

Begin with a 15-minute, device-free check-in three times weekly – a concrete routine that gives permission to talk without interruption, lowers the instinct to hold...

Concrete recommendation: Create a short safety plan, pick a calm room at home in the middle of a low-stress day, set a 20–30 minute window,...

Concrete rule: offer a secondary username (Signal, Telegram, Instagram handle) or continue platform messages until at least 2–3 substantive exchanges or a short live call....

Start with waterproof trail shoes featuring 4–6mm lugs, low mass (75 minutes; weigh before and after to calculate sweat rate and adjust replacement to 0.5–1%...

Begin a 21‑day behavioral reset: commit to three focused sessions per week – 30 minutes of targeted practice (15 min cognitive reframe using a thought...

Log each incident with date, time and witness – a simple spreadsheet reduces cognitive distortion. If three separate instances of lying, controlling behaviour or humiliation...

Recommendation: Inventory five guiding principles; assign weights 1–10; log each instance where a stance clashes with workplace rules, family expectations, other stakeholder demands. Set a...

Concrete rule: require at least three corroborating signals before committing: length of close friendships, frequency of conflict-closure conversations, measurable financial stability. Use size of social...

First action: produce a short list of weekly routines that build autonomy (40–60 minutes daily solo work, two social appointments per week, one personal project...

Recommendation: Arrange a single clinical visit that includes a medication reconciliation, targeted STI tests, and a mental-health screen – clinical teams should aim to complete...

Immediate action: Create a rights-and-responsibilities checklist and share it on first serious date; include finances, family plans, medical proxies, and clear boundaries because documented agreements...

Start with one measurable rule this week: refuse work calls after 8pm on three nights; record reclaimed minutes in a simple table; report the change...

Begin with a 10-minute weekly check-in: each member names one boundary and one short action they will take before the next meeting; in a sample...

Concrete recommendation: If messaging frequency reaches 3–5 exchanges per week and replies include follow-up questions, propose a casual in-person meet within two to four weeks...

Adopt a 21-day no-contact rule: mute or delete profiles, stop messaging, and tell two close friends you’ll reassess after three weeks; do not speak to...

Clear recommendation: Inviter is expected to cover costs for an initial meetup as a practical rule; if inviter asked, responsibility leans toward them, though mutual...

Practical moves: smile for 2–4 seconds, let a genuine laugh follow at least once, and open with an observation rather than a compliment about appearance...

Write down five concrete requirements and test them immediately: job stability over two years, clear financial red flags, daily communication pattern, visible friendship network, and...

Concrete step: set a specific time, name one primary goal, and limit the meeting to two topics – this reduces escalation and improves the chance...

Document every incident: screenshots, timestamps, voicemail, witness names and dates. If insulting or demeaning comments appear three or more times within 30 days, treat the...

Data: a 2021 study tracked 1,200 participants across three towns and found that when people moved from messaging to an in-person meeting within seven days,...

Open with one concise sentence that references something you found on their profile and ends with an either/or choice; people who want quick interaction answer...

Use a clinical checklist: list six items to arrange before leaving the house – reservation confirmation, directions, budget cap, emergency contact, backup location, and an...

Do this now: schedule a 45–60 minute voice or video call within 7–10 days and use whatsapp only to arrange the appointment. Controlled observations and...