Irina Zhuravleva

Memorize seven high-frequency labels and tag each contact immediately: ghosting (исчезновение), orbiting, vibe-based interest, benching, breadcrumbing, stashing and soft-launching. In a 2024 quick poll of...

Limit all contact to written messages about schedules and child exchanges; implement a 7-day response rule and stick to it. Document every attempt to provoke...

Recommendation: After watching the movie, list three recurring signs of misalignment and place one action card in a visible spot that maps a ten-year preference...

Agree on one concrete rule within 48 hours: name whether you will meet weekly, keep texts only, or pause contact after a post-fight cooling period;...

Concrete routine: Respond within 24 hours, schedule three short interactions across one week, and limit initial calls to 30 minutes; doing so gives clear data...

Measure speaking balance: aim to speak no more than 40% of the minutes in a 10-minute exchange; run three daily 10-minute rounds with a timer...

Start with a three-step evidence test: write down three concrete facts that contradict the recurring negative impression, score each fact from 0–10 for reliability, then...

Immediate actions: if you are living separately, set a 48-hour plan – freeze shared cards, change passwords, and place hard copies of IDs and key...

Recommendation: Reserve two 20-minute tuning sessions per week; use the first for order-setting (tasks, finances, calendar), the next for expressing personal needs, vulnerability. Many couples...

Recommendation: Disclose major mental-health diagnoses, current sexually transmitted infections, felony convictions, and ongoing debt before declaring exclusivity; reserve detailed childhood narratives and anecdotal past attractions...

Concrete rule: no texts, no likes, no DMs for 10 calendar days; log the date of last interaction, note any reply within 48–72 hours, mark...

Immediate recommendation: Remove shoes, electrical cords and loose cushions, and place two durable chew options (Kong Classic, Nylabone) in rotation every 48 hours; provide structured...

Do this today: book a recurring 30‑minute slot, agree on two measurable goals (one around spending, one around trust), and commit to a single third‑party...

Recommendation: define three objective criteria for choices in intimate partnerships, run a 7‑day micro‑test, and log outcomes daily. Start by writing what matters about commitment,...

Recommendation: Implement three focused rituals every day: a 15-minute undistracted check-in, a short handwritten letter left where he will see it, a shared micro-goal that...

Implement independent review boards with statutory powers within 60 days: require binding recommendations, subpoena access to records, and public quarterly reports. Set measurable targets: reduce...

Take a pragmatic step: book a short meeting in a public place – coffee, a creative studio class or a group event – and limit...

Schedule three 15-minute uninterrupted check-ins per week. If he cancels more than twice within a 14-day window, record that as a behavioral data point and...

Commit to one platform for 12 weeks; this plan takes focused effort. Aim for 20 quality conversations, 6 in-person meetups, 2 follow-up dates per month;...

Be explicit: state a clock time or concrete plan – for example, “I need to leave by 9:15 for a prior commitment.” This single move...

Recommendation: Proceed toward committed pairing when you can cite three measurable wins: an emergency fund covering 6 months of expenses, a clear timeline for major...

Create a clear division by areas (kitchen, laundry, trash, surfaces) and list every item someone expects to clean. Set a priority level for each item,...

If you couldnt pause, implement an external cue: set your phone to auto-delay texts for 10 minutes and mark each entry “trigger” in a note...

Concrete rule: agree on three commitments before you begin: no phones, one person speaks uninterrupted for 3 minutes, the listener paraphrases for 2 minutes. Use...