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hey thanks for coming through today yeah what’s up man so I just started seeing this girl — she’s fantastic and I really don’t want...

Have you ever asked yourself what finally makes an avoidant person stop running? What triggers that moment when they slam the brakes, turn back, and...

Everything regrettable I ever did came out of being lonely. Maybe you’ve felt the same. One of the riskiest moments in relationships is right after...

Okay, I want to speak directly to my driven spouses for a minute — where are my driven spouses at? I see you grinding 50,...

I’ll say something that may feel counterintuitive but is painfully accurate: the people who walk away are often the same ones who come back —...

Childhood trauma can teach someone to surrender their personal power — through self-sabotaging habits, people-pleasing, and a drive to escape conflict, responsibility, and intimacy. To...

Obsessive love often flares up when life feels empty and the ties to people and pursuits that bring joy are weak. Limerence is what happens...

He may never say it out loud. He might not display it in obvious ways. But if you spot these seven indicators, he’s in love...

Hey everyone — welcome to my big reveal. This is the very first video on my channel. I’m Jimmy, and today I’m going to show...

One of the major ways childhood trauma undermines the possibility of a healthy adult partnership is by freezing emotional growth. When caregivers threaten a child...

Many people believe that avoidant individuals don’t want love. That’s a misconception. They often desire connection even more intensely than it appears. The reality is...

여자가 나를 만진다고 해서 자동적으로 섹스를 원한다는 뜻은 아니라는 사실을 받아들여야 했다. 그리고 에밀리도 결국에는...

회피형 인간과 사랑에 빠지면 이런 일이 벌어집니다. 처음에는 강렬한 소속감이 느껴집니다. 마침내 무언가를 찾은 것처럼...

이 질문은 항상 자주 올라오기 때문에 어떻게 접근해야 할지 명확히 해 보겠습니다. 관계에서 두 파트너 모두 책임이 있으며, 각 사람은...

오랫동안 나는 나에게 뭔가 깊이 이상하고 잘못된 것이 있다고 생각했다. 나는 종종 다른 사람들과 단절된 느낌을 받았고, ~할 수 없었다...

거의 아무도 알아차리지 못하지만, 만약 당신의 삶이 당신의 감정을 돌려주지 않는 사람들을 쫓는 패턴이 되고, 계속 커밋하는 것을 거부한다면...

회피성 애착 패턴을 가진 사람이 이것을 한다면, 그들은 당신에게 충실한 것입니다 — 그리고 아마도 당신이 기대하는 모습은 아닐 것입니다. 대부분...

특별한 파트너가 되고 싶으신가요? 저는 분명히 훌륭한 남편이 되려고 노력했습니다. 아무도 단상에서...

Let’s set one thing straight from the outset. Feeling shattered does not make you irrational. And his ability to walk away appearing unfazed doesn’t mark...

Dr John Gman reported that in his study of thousands of couples, when a man refused to accept the influence of his female partner, the...

나는 단상에 서서 에밀리를 내 인생의 나머지 동안 사랑하고, 존경하고, 소중히 여기겠다고 맹세했다 — 그리고 뒤돌아보면…

You have a friend you secretly love. You convinced yourself you had to behave like “just a friend” in order to keep them, afraid they’d...

The issue with romantic bonds—especially for people who experienced neglect or hurt in childhood—is how intensely attached we can become. Breaking up can feel catastrophic,...

How can you tell when it’s time to walk away from a relationship? That question feels one of the hardest to answer because we invest...