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When someone with an avoidant attachment realizes you’ve stopped caring, everything shifts — their sense of control falters, their world becomes unsteady, and today I’ll...

hey, are you the wife translator? yeah, so what are we dealing with here? hey, thanks for coming. honestly, I didn’t think we’d need a...

When you enter a period of silence with someone who has pulled away, you confront one of the most misunderstood realities in modern relationships. Many...

Tell me if this sounds like you. You grew up in a dysfunctional home. To survive, you built your whole identity around the qualities others...

I didn’t realize for a long time that I was trapped in a toxic partnership. Looking back, I couldn’t tell which warning signs deserved my...

Anger is an instinctive emotion; it exists to prompt action when you face danger, humiliation, or injustice. It motivates you to resist, to speak up,...

Ce que Kelly essaie de communiquer, si je comprends bien, c'est qu'elle a besoin de plus d'affection de votre part qui ne soit pas sexuelle. Je suis désolé — avez-vous...

How can someone know if an avoidant person actually feels regret about losing them when no words are spoken? Pause on that — it’s the...

Messieurs — un avertissement juste : à un moment donné dans une relation saine, votre partenaire vous abordera d'un lieu de vulnérabilité, en demandant ou en laissant entendre...

Pourquoi semble-t-elle m'agacer encore plus lorsque je dois finir mon travail à la maison ? Par exemple, je pourrais être...

Vous suivez chaque conseil que l’on vous donne—allez en thérapie, pratiquez la respiration, restez optimiste, faites de l’exercice, répétez des affirmations, soyez doux avec les autres, faites votre deuil, honorez vos sentiments—pourtant…

Vous êtes-vous déjà arrêté(e) pour vous demander ce qui fait finalement arrêter quelqu'un ayant des tendances évitantes ? Genre, quel moment les pousse à se confronter à eux-mêmes, à faire la...

Okay — imaginez que vous soulevez quelque chose qui vous importe d'une manière calme et respectueuse, mais votre partenaire réagit toujours comme si vous l'aviez attaqué...

We triple-dare you to bring up these questions the next time an argument erupts. Are you seriously that upset? I’m fired up, man — there’s...

J'ai été submergé de messages de personnes qui se sentent trahies par leurs partenaires — au début, leur être cher était charismatique, affectueux et semblait...

People often remain in harmful relationships because the mistreatment is not constant. In trauma bonds especially, a pattern of unpredictable kindness and cruelty conditions the...

Imagine if you began responding to them exactly as they respond to you. Imagine if you invested in this relationship only to the same degree...

That sickening twist in your stomach when someone you love — someone you’ve been pouring effort into — suddenly acts as though you don’t matter:...

If you have feelings for someone but keep them hidden because you know they aren’t really available, pretending it’s “just friendship,” don’t be astonished when...

When an entire family turns on one of its members, it is a profoundly harmful form of abuse. Sometimes this takes the shape of scapegoating,...

If you grew up with trauma, you already know how past experiences can resurface and set off thoughts, reactions and habits that undermine your performance...

Pleasing others will almost certainly wreck your relationships — and many of you are guilty of it. You might ask: Jimmy, how do I tell...

Listen: I can’t fix a relationship unless both partners agree to a shared set of principles and values. If even one person refuses to live...

Love itself doesn’t cause pain. People who haven’t learned how to love do. Sit with that for a second. If you have ever been in...