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I want to start by saying sorry — I realize that when I talk about Christianity or Jesus it can be really triggering for many...

Most people assume trauma only leaves you fragile, but for a lot of us it produces rage. You can see it everywhere: being mistreated can...

Listen: this only works when both partners become a refuge for the other — a place where concerns, complaints, or requests for different expressions of...

People will often reduce women’s ADHD to simple daydreaming, lapses in concentration, or messy habits. But for many women it’s far more than occasional forgetfulness...

Entanglement describes a messy emotional knot in relationships: a pattern where leaving feels terrifying even though it occupies your thoughts constantly, and both partners —...

Be very clear on one thing. If the person you just split from had an avoidant style, this needs to land: you are not losing...

Do you ever wonder what to learn so you can communicate more during an argument? It might be valuable to take a closer look. For...

This could be the very action that, down the line, saves a marriage. This is a video that should be watched together with your partner,...

There is a big difference between casually noticing another woman who enters your line of sight and deliberately allowing your eyes to linger on her...

Let’s begin with a truth few people acknowledge: avoidant-attached individuals don’t take to love the same way most do. Often, the closer you try to...

Here’s a blunt reality about childhood trauma: some of the things you missed as a kid cannot be repaired by going back in time. You...

Have you ever experienced someone retreating from you just as you finally allowed yourself to relax? One moment you’re sharing jokes, feeling connected and secure,...

If your goal this year is to systematically wreck whatever remains of your relationship, you needn’t look any further — I’ve got the exact blueprint...

Chaos isn’t random. If you repeatedly end up broke, constantly arguing with people, or drowning in everyday demands, that often points to recurring trauma patterns...

Do you realize one of the biggest reasons our relationship suffered was that we never set a shared baseline? It may sound trivial now, but...

Living with trauma-fueled struggles can go on for so long that even the notion of freeing yourself from old patterns and problems seems terrifying. If...

Our culture tends to hand us two conflicting messages about how to find happiness: either you must make everything happen yourself, or you should avoid...

Let’s be blunt about in‑laws: here’s a simple rule — if you’re married, protect your spouse from disrespect coming from your family. You can deeply...

Consider a simple, vivid example of how love looks ahead to a partner’s needs. Many households have a wife or partner—often a mother—who is constantly...

人々は劇的な転換の物語を愛する：ある人は痛み、中毒、トラウマに満ちた人生を漂い、そして、たった一つの幸運な出来事の後、全て…

Jimmy here with another episode on how to handle your partner’s seemingly irrational emotions. Alright, let’s see what today’s term is — what are we...

You’re in a relationship and it feels bewildering, doesn’t it? One moment you feel incredibly close — seen, connected, certain that what you share is...

There’s something strangely compelling about people who appear composed, steady, and seemingly unaffected. They don’t beg or pursue; their emotions seem tucked away and tightly...

Here’s something almost nobody ever says outright: the impact of someone leaving doesn’t always register in the moment. The loss, the regret, the emptiness —...