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What runs through the mind of an avoidant ex when your silence lasts far beyond what they anticipated? Let’s explore that — honestly, without sweetening...

Childhood trauma can teach someone to surrender their personal power — through self-sabotaging habits, people-pleasing, and a drive to escape conflict, responsibility, and intimacy. To...

Okay, I want to speak directly to my driven spouses for a minute — where are my driven spouses at? I see you grinding 50,...

I’ll say something that may feel counterintuitive but is painfully accurate: the people who walk away are often the same ones who come back —...

hey thanks for coming through today yeah what’s up man so I just started seeing this girl — she’s fantastic and I really don’t want...

listen—I honestly don’t understand why she’s never in the mood anymore. oh man, my wife used to be the same way. have you ever tried...

Everything regrettable I ever did came out of being lonely. Maybe you’ve felt the same. One of the riskiest moments in relationships is right after...

Have you ever asked yourself what finally makes an avoidant person stop running? What triggers that moment when they slam the brakes, turn back, and...

If you scan the people in your life—friends, lovers, roommates, colleagues—and notice an unsettling number of them are selfish, cruel, or bring chaos and danger...

Obsessive love often flares up when life feels empty and the ties to people and pursuits that bring joy are weak. Limerence is what happens...

I had to come to terms with the fact that a woman touching me doesn’t automatically mean she wants sex — and Emily eventually reached...

Almost nobody notices this, but if your life becomes a pattern of chasing people who don’t return your feelings, refusing to commit while you keep...

Hey everyone — welcome to my big reveal. This is the very first video on my channel. I’m Jimmy, and today I’m going to show...

He may never say it out loud. He might not display it in obvious ways. But if you spot these seven indicators, he’s in love...

Many people believe that avoidant individuals don’t want love. That’s a misconception. They often desire connection even more intensely than it appears. The reality is...

One of the major ways childhood trauma undermines the possibility of a healthy adult partnership is by freezing emotional growth. When caregivers threaten a child...

For a long time I thought there was something deeply strange and wrong with me. I often felt cut off from other people, unable to...

This question comes up all the time, so let’s clarify how to approach it. Both partners have responsibilities in a relationship; each person has a...

If a person with an avoidant attachment pattern does this, they are being loyal to you — and it’s probably not what you expect. Most...

This is what happens when you fall in love with an avoidant person. At first there’s an intense sense of belonging, like finally finding something...

Do you want to be an exceptional partner? I certainly set out to be an outstanding husband. Nobody stands at the altar promising to be...

How can you tell when it’s time to walk away from a relationship? That question feels one of the hardest to answer because we invest...

Hear this carefully — it will land hard. Keeping quiet after a breakup is not a sign of frailty. In fact, silence, particularly when the...

What if the very work you’ve poured into personal development is the thing keeping you stuck? You’ve devoured self-help books, journaled your inner life, pushed...