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A volte le persone lanciano la parola “privilegio” come un’accusa — un’umiliazione che permette all’accusatore di sentirsi moralmente superiore e persino di usare la vergogna per screditare...

Se gli adulti intorno a te ti hanno ignorato da bambino — se sono stati negligenti, ti hanno liquidato o sono semplicemente stati assenti — potresti ancora portare con te l'esperienza di...

Esiste un'etichetta psicologica per lo schema di costante priorità ai bisogni di qualcun altro rispetto ai propri: si privilegiano i modi in cui si sentono amati, si evitano...

Scopri cosa significa la stagione degli abbracci, perché si verifica in inverno e come le persone formano relazioni brevi e stagionali quando il tempo fa freddo.

Practical Steps to Take — Without Pretending You’re Alone That story is a reminder: you can protect your happiness, but you don’t have to pretend...

Sometimes it seems unavoidable to get involved with a narcissist — they can be extremely manipulative, and those early stages of a relationship often feel...

The quickest route to make an avoidant fixate is simple: seize the frame. They’re not mysterious geniuses — they follow a script. While they play...

Ehi, andiamo dritti al punto. Se vuoi la relazione più sana possibile, poni una semplice domanda: “Come possiamo collaborare in modo che entrambi...

È ovvio che il modo in cui le persone sono state accudite dai propri genitori durante l'infanzia plasmi il modo in cui formano legami romantici più avanti nella vita — questo è...

Two things can be true at once: sarcasm, passive-aggression, and shouting are unhealthy ways to ask for what you need, and yet there was likely...

For many people who experienced abuse or neglect as children, going to medical appointments can be intensely triggering. The questions clinicians ask, the physical examinations,...

In life you’ll encounter people who will mistreat you, and your instincts will warn you that their behavior is wrong and that you need to...

I’m about to drop something that may land hard: if you assume your avoidant ex simply moved on without a care, you’re mistaken. Completely mistaken....

Remember that deceiving your partner, whatever the reason, wounds them and undermines the foundation of trust in the relationship. You might tell yourself you’re sparing...

Alright — straight to the point. You find yourself checking your phone again. Staring at the screen, waiting for those three little dots to appear....

What you’re going through is not a typical romantic rollercoaster. It’s a calculated psychological scheme. The avoidant person in your life doesn’t stumble into push-and-pull...

hey I felt really disrespected by the way you were speaking to me at the party earlier Oh you mean the same party where you...

What runs through the mind of an avoidant ex when your silence lasts far beyond what they anticipated? Let’s explore that — honestly, without sweetening...

Do you want to know why so many relationships end in breakups or divorce? Too often it comes down to people not really knowing their...

If you scan the people in your life—friends, lovers, roommates, colleagues—and notice an unsettling number of them are selfish, cruel, or bring chaos and danger...

listen—I honestly don’t understand why she’s never in the mood anymore. oh man, my wife used to be the same way. have you ever tried...

hey thanks for coming through today yeah what’s up man so I just started seeing this girl — she’s fantastic and I really don’t want...

Have you ever asked yourself what finally makes an avoidant person stop running? What triggers that moment when they slam the brakes, turn back, and...

Everything regrettable I ever did came out of being lonely. Maybe you’ve felt the same. One of the riskiest moments in relationships is right after...