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Irina Zhuravleva is a psychologist and journalist with over 15 years of experience in both fields. She began her career as a clinical psychologist, specializing in relationship counseling and emotional well-being. After earning her Ph.D. in psychology, Irina discovered her passion for storytelling and transitioned into journalism. She worked as a columnist for several renowned magazines, writing about mental health, personal growth, and social issues.

Irina is also the author of two best-selling books that explore the intersection of psychology and modern life. Alongside her writing, she continues to provide private counseling sessions and frequently appears as a guest speaker at international conferences. Her unique ability to blend scientific expertise with compelling narratives has made her a trusted voice in both psychology and media.

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50 First-Date Conversation Topics & Questions to Ask a Potential Partner
50 First-Date Conversation Topics & Questions to Ask a Potential Partner

Begin with a neighborhood observation, a short business anecdote and a creative reading tip. Those three go-to starters take under 30 seconds each, make transitions...

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19 November, 2025
How to Date After Being Single for a Long Time — Practical Tips
How to Date After Being Single for a Long Time — Practical Tips

Set a clear quota. Schedule three two-hour social interactions in the next 30 days and log outcomes: 3 events, 30 days, 2 hours each. For...

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19 November, 2025
Do Long Distance Relationships Work? All You Need to Know + Expert Tips
Do Long Distance Relationships Work? All You Need to Know + Expert Tips

Schedule a face-to-face visit at least every 90 days and set explicit contact rules (frequency, platforms, response windows) to preserve a meaningful emotional bond. A...

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19 November, 2025
Constantly Scrolling on Your Phone? Why We Can’t Stand Feeling Bored
Constantly Scrolling on Your Phone? Why We Can’t Stand Feeling Bored

Set a hard timer and remove stimuli: disable facebook notifications, mute autoplay, and archive three most distracting apps. Track baseline hours for seven days (average...

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19 November, 2025
Why Won’t He Divorce His Wife? Reasons & Advice for Partners
Why Won’t He Divorce His Wife? Reasons & Advice for Partners

Get a solicitor appointment and a written plan within seven days. Prioritise immediate safety if the situation is tense, collect certified ID, three months of...

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19 November, 2025
4 Reasons Guys Get Mad When You Say No to Sex — Understanding His Reaction
4 Reasons Guys Get Mad When You Say No to Sex — Understanding His Reaction

Immediate action: name the boundary clearly, avoid defending every detail, and exit to safety if tension increases – this reduces hostile escalation at least 60%...

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19 November, 2025
What to Do When He Pulls Away – 10 Positive Strategies to Respond
What to Do When He Pulls Away – 10 Positive Strategies to Respond

Set a 48-hour boundary: send one concise, neutral check-in after two days and then pause; this reduces mixed signals and gives both of you space...

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19 November, 2025
The Gift of Deep Listening – Boost Relationships
The Gift of Deep Listening – Boost Relationships

Use three precise questions: “What happened?”, “How did that feel?”, “What do you want next?” Ask them in this order, wait two to three seconds...

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19 November, 2025
What Men Want in a Relationship – 21 Simple & Surprising Things
What Men Want in a Relationship – 21 Simple & Surprising Things

Action: Schedule five 5-minute focused check-ins during weekdays and one uninterrupted 60-minute conversation each week; this habit produces measurable increases in perceived support and preserves...

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19 November, 2025
Nonexclusive Dating – Pros and Cons + Expert Tips for Success
Nonexclusive Dating – Pros and Cons + Expert Tips for Success

Set three core rules within the first two meetings: disclose STI status once youve received results, agree on sexual boundaries that sit between partners, define...

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19 November, 2025
Why Men Can’t Resist a Naturally Challenging Woman — Psychology of Attraction
Why Men Can’t Resist a Naturally Challenging Woman — Psychology of Attraction

Practice 1 – skill scaffolding: allocate 2–4 hours weekly to deliberate building of professional or creative competence, plus reading one book per month to expand...

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19 November, 2025
Online vs Offline Personalities – How Different Are You?
Online vs Offline Personalities – How Different Are You?

Start by running a 3-step protocol: 1) a 5-question behavior survey taken anonymously at work; 2) two 90-second recorded interviews; 3) a 12-image recognition test...

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19 November, 2025
12 Must-Have Qualities to Look for in a Long-Term Partner
12 Must-Have Qualities to Look for in a Long-Term Partner

Concrete recommendation: prioritize measurable consistency – require evidence of kept promises across a 2–5 years window and weight repeated actions above single declarations. Most predictive...

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19 November, 2025
How to Tell If Your Feelings Are Unrequited – Expert Insight & Clear Signs
How to Tell If Your Feelings Are Unrequited – Expert Insight & Clear Signs

Ask for direct confirmation within 14 days: request a specific response or permission to proceed, and track initiated contacts – at least one outreach per...

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19 November, 2025
Why You Procrastinate — 10 Proven Tactics to Stop Now
Why You Procrastinate — 10 Proven Tactics to Stop Now

Set a 25-minute timer, put the phone in another room, open only one file and commit to one measurable micro-goal (write 100 words, complete one...

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19 November, 2025
No Spark with a Nice Man Interested in You? How to Decide & Act
No Spark with a Nice Man Interested in You? How to Decide & Act

Concrete metric: set a 6–12 week window to notice consistent actions that match words; track three core signals – availability, planning, and prioritizing – and...

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19 November, 2025
Never Judge a Woman by Her Appearance – Here’s Why
Never Judge a Woman by Her Appearance – Here’s Why

Start with verifiable facts: request recent records, references and a short account of decisions made in the last 12 months before forming a view. When...

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19 November, 2025
Too Many Goals, Too Little Time? How to Focus Your Attention
Too Many Goals, Too Little Time? How to Focus Your Attention

Action: Set a daily cap of 3 active objectives and block the calendar into 90/15 cycles; a controlled trial measured output differences in 180 participants...

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19 November, 2025
7 Uncomfortable Reasons You End Up in Toxic Relationships
7 Uncomfortable Reasons You End Up in Toxic Relationships

Immediate step: map the key components that reproduce harm – control, unpredictable withdrawal and frequent criticism – then choose a single, measurable boundary to enact...

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19 November, 2025
3 Stages of a New Relationship – How to Handle Changes — Laura Smilski
3 Stages of a New Relationship – How to Handle Changes — Laura Smilski

Set a 20–30 minute check-in every friday and use that slot to discuss three concrete topics: calendar clashes, emotional needs, and one shared plan for...

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19 November, 2025
Why People Ghost After Intimacy or Conflict in Relationships – Causes & How to Cope
Why People Ghost After Intimacy or Conflict in Relationships – Causes & How to Cope

Action now: If someone disappears suddenly in the middle of a close exchange, send one concise message within 48 hours asking a single, concrete question...

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19 November, 2025
Woe Is Me – Why Men I Meet Never Want to Date Me — Reasons & Dating Tips
Woe Is Me – Why Men I Meet Never Want to Date Me — Reasons & Dating Tips

Do three measurable changes this week: replace two over-filtered selfies with one candid action shot, shorten your bio to one specific prompt they can reply...

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19 November, 2025
If He Stopped Calling or Texting – 7 Things to Do ASAP
If He Stopped Calling or Texting – 7 Things to Do ASAP

1) Enforce a 72-hour no-contact window and create a simple log (date, time, channel, last message content). This reduces impulse replies that come across as...

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19 November, 2025
This Is the Real Reason Why Men Cheat — Psychology, Signs & Solutions
This Is the Real Reason Why Men Cheat — Psychology, Signs & Solutions

Start by implementing a 12-week pact: set three explicit boundaries, schedule one 30-minute weekly check-in, require calendar transparency for social outings, enroll both partners in...

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19 November, 2025