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Some readers have voiced concern that these messages underplay the gravity of marital commitment, so let it be stated plainly: the bond of marriage deserves...

If you are one of the many people carrying the lasting effects of childhood abuse or neglect, I want you to know that you’ve likely...

What unfolds when one person lives in constant fear of losing love while the other fears being tied down? This isn’t merely a rhetorical flourish...

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who seems to vanish emotionally just when you need them most? The quiet stretches feel heavier...

Many of you have shared that lately you’ve been feeling a hollow kind of ache, especially around the holidays — a blend of sadness and...

Have you ever been in a relationship where one moment everything feels warm and close, and the next your partner seems to withdraw without warning?...

When someone you care about begins to pull away, your first instinct is often to read that distance as rejection. You start to doubt yourself...

I’m noticing a troubling pattern in relationships: too often people fall into one of two harmful habits — they either minimize their partner’s pain or...

Limerence is an intense, addictive form of romantic fixation on someone who is unattainable. People caught in it often withdraw from reality and retreat into...

There are moments that stop you in your tracks — not simply because something awful occurred, but because that event reveals you are utterly on...

Okay — here are three important reasons we should avoid letting our partner feel as if sex has become an obligation. Number one: it erodes...

This is not love — and I’ll state that up front without beating around the bush. The intense magnetic pull, the fixation on someone who...

A pathological narcissist can make you feel exalted one moment and then discard you the next over the smallest perceived slight, and afterward they’ll turn...

You believe he’s untroubled. You picture him walking away without a backward glance: composed, detached, already moving on as if you never mattered. His feeds...

When my marriage began to crumble and we started seeing a counselor together, one comment she made cut straight to the heart of things. She...

Understanding disorganized (fearful-avoidant) attachment Disorganized attachment develops when a child’s caregiver was both a source of comfort and a source of fear — for example,...

Many people ask which exact method I used to soothe my nervous system and heal the lingering effects of childhood PTSD. If you’ve seen my...

Being ignored by someone, especially by someone who matters to you, cuts in a way that’s hard to describe. It’s not a physical blow or...

Begin with a common misconception. When someone pulls away—stops replying to messages, goes quiet after a night of closeness, or physically leans back in a...

They walk away and then silence falls. You check their social feeds and see them seemingly fine — maybe even freer and happier. They drink...

Isn’t it maddening? Just when you finally start to feel lighter—smiling again, sleeping through the night, no longer obsessively checking their Instagram—your phone buzzes and...

Being betrayed by infidelity and dishonesty is devastating. Has this happened to you? What makes it so bewildering is that betrayal can creep into relationships...

Okay, here’s the situation: everyone is fixated on spotting red flags — narcissism, avoidance, gaslighting — wondering whether their partner is secretly manipulating them. That...

Limerence strikes me as almost a metaphysical phenomenon; it winds itself through the wreckage of family breakdowns. It’s an obsessive, high-intensity fixation on people you...