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Irina Zhuravleva 是一名心理学家和记者,在这两个领域都有超过 15 年的经验。她的职业生涯始于临床心理学家,专攻人际关系咨询和情感健康。获得心理学博士学位后,Irina 发现自己热衷于讲故事,于是转行从事新闻工作。她曾在多家知名杂志担任专栏作家,撰写有关心理健康、个人成长和社会问题的文章。

伊琳娜还著有两本探讨心理学与现代生活交汇点的畅销书。在写作的同时,她还继续提供私人咨询课程,并经常作为演讲嘉宾出席国际会议。她将科学专业知识与引人入胜的叙述融为一体的独特能力,使她成为心理学界和媒体界值得信赖的声音。

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How to Get Over a Crush – Techniques to Recover from Unrequited Love
How to Get Over a Crush – Techniques to Recover from Unrequited Love

Immediate action: Stop contact for a defined period – set a 30-day no-contact rule, delete and archive messages, mute social feeds and add a calendar...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Get a Guy to Call You in 3 Simple Steps | Quick Dating Tips
How to Get a Guy to Call You in 3 Simple Steps | Quick Dating Tips

Ask for the number after a clear moment of rapport: this means asking when conversation is flowing, when a meme or a picture lands well,...

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10 月 09, 2025
The Blog – How to Start, Grow, and Succeed with Your Online Journal
The Blog – How to Start, Grow, and Succeed with Your Online Journal

Allocate 3 hours weekly for research, 2 hours for drafting, 1 hour for publishing; total time per post: 6–8 hours. after first month youll have...

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10 月 09, 2025
What to Do When Your Boyfriend Ignores You in a Long-Distance Relationship – Practical Communication Tips and Rebuilding Your Connection
What to Do When Your Boyfriend Ignores You in a Long-Distance Relationship – Practical Communication Tips and Rebuilding Your Connection

Start with a clear script: “I feel ignored when messages go unanswered; I’m calm now. Can we set one 20-minute slot this week? If busy,...

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10 月 09, 2025
Eight Signs You’re in an Unhappy Relationship – How to Tell and What to Do
Eight Signs You’re in an Unhappy Relationship – How to Tell and What to Do

Start by running a 30-day measurable check: set three concrete metrics (weekly shared minutes, number of unresolved conflicts, ratio of support-to-criticism incidents), log them daily,...

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10 月 09, 2025
When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Past Relationships – Coping Insights from Nadene van der Linden, Clinical Psychologist
When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Past Relationships – Coping Insights from Nadene van der Linden, Clinical Psychologist

Immediate action: pause and take five deep breaths, label sensations (for example: frightened, hollow, or intense pressure) and write those feelings down. This interrupts ruminating...

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10 月 09, 2025
What Makes the Perfect Dating Profile? 70% of App Users Say This Trait Gives Them the Ick
What Makes the Perfect Dating Profile? 70% of App Users Say This Trait Gives Them the Ick

First, use one clear headshot plus two candid images: profiles that have three photos show an average increase in responses based on previous analysis from...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Have More Meaningful Conversations – Tips for Deeper Connections
How to Have More Meaningful Conversations – Tips for Deeper Connections

Ask one precise open-ended question, then stay silent at least ten seconds; multiple lab and field research indicate longer pauses increase personal disclosure and reduce...

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10 月 09, 2025
I Spent 48 Hours on a Celebrity Dating App – What I Learned
I Spent 48 Hours on a Celebrity Dating App – What I Learned

Concrete result: over a two-day trial on a high-profile matching service I logged settings, impressions and replies. With verification toggled on I recorded ~9 matches...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Deal with Trust Issues and Insecurities in Relationships – 6 Steps to Repair from a Couples Therapist
How to Deal with Trust Issues and Insecurities in Relationships – 6 Steps to Repair from a Couples Therapist

Begin a concrete transparency protocol: daily 10-minute emotionally focused check-ins, a shared calendar for social plans, clearly defined limits on device privacy; appoint a neutral...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Stop Obsessing Over a Crush – Practical Steps to Move On and Reclaim Your Peace
How to Stop Obsessing Over a Crush – Practical Steps to Move On and Reclaim Your Peace

Begin with a strict no-contact period for at least 21 days; research shows measurable reductions in intrusive thinking within three to four weeks when short,...

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10 月 09, 2025
Insider’s Guide – Safely Opening Your Relationship
Insider’s Guide – Safely Opening Your Relationship

Start with one concrete rule: schedule a 60‑minute conversation, agree on no more than three changes, and set a 48‑hour check to assess immediate impact....

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10 月 09, 2025
Snippets of Valuable Dating Lessons – Choosing Wisely in Relationships
Snippets of Valuable Dating Lessons – Choosing Wisely in Relationships

Adopt a three-date test: schedule at least three in-person dates within six weeks, leave 48–72 hours of space between meetings to reflect, and score each...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Stop Worrying – 11 Steps to Reduce Stress and Anxiety
How to Stop Worrying – 11 Steps to Reduce Stress and Anxiety

Schedule a single 15-minute “worry slot” each evening; write prioritized things during that window, then close the notebook. This system limits rumination during the day;...

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10 月 09, 2025
Stop Overthinking Romantic Relationships – A Practical Guide
Stop Overthinking Romantic Relationships – A Practical Guide

First detail the trigger and where the pattern becomes repetitive: write the moment it manifests, the exact words you heard, the times of day it...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Be a Supportive Partner – Practical Tips for a Stronger Relationship
How to Be a Supportive Partner – Practical Tips for a Stronger Relationship

Make a two-minute daily check-in nonnegotiable: ask them a single question, acknowledge one frustration, pick one tiny action to ease it. Quick, habitual check-ins shift...

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10 月 09, 2025
4 Reasons You’re Choosing the Wrong Dating Photos and How to Fix Them
4 Reasons You’re Choosing the Wrong Dating Photos and How to Fix Them

Start with a face shot that fills exactly 60–70% of frame; split tests on sample profiles showed a 40% lift in replies when subjects used...

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10 月 09, 2025
Redefining the Dating Playbook – What It Means to Authentically Date
Redefining the Dating Playbook – What It Means to Authentically Date

Set measurable targets: reply median under 24 hours, two in-person meetups within three weeks, and one candid conversation about exclusivity after four meetings. For many,...

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10 月 09, 2025
What to Do When Someone Says They’re Not Ready for a Relationship – A Practical Guide
What to Do When Someone Says They’re Not Ready for a Relationship – A Practical Guide

Stop escalating and set a 90-day reassessment now. Focus your calendar and emotional energy on measurable signals: frequency of contact, concrete timelines, and actions that...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Make Him Chase You – 12 Proven Ways to Get Him Interested
How to Make Him Chase You – 12 Proven Ways to Get Him Interested

Practical action: respond to messages within a 1–3 hour window and limit spontaneous calls to one per 48 hours; this small constraint reduces neediness and...

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10 月 09, 2025
Calm for Couples – Practical Tips for a Peaceful Relationship
Calm for Couples – Practical Tips for a Peaceful Relationship

Schedule a 10-minute morning check-in on weekdays: set an alarm, sit face-to-face, each person names one thought and one little practical task, then state one...

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10 月 09, 2025
7 Essential Tips for Dating a Younger Man
7 Essential Tips for Dating a Younger Man

Begin conversations with a single-line purpose – write a sentence such as “I love weekday hikes, weekend quiets, and honest planning” so potential partners know...

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10 月 09, 2025
Finding Clarity – How Do I Make the Decision to Divorce? A Practical Guide
Finding Clarity – How Do I Make the Decision to Divorce? A Practical Guide

Act immediately: document incidents with dates, messages, witnesses; make hard copies and store digital files offline; prioritize personal safety and, if you feel at risk,...

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10 月 09, 2025
How to Heal a Broken Heart and Move On After a Breakup
How to Heal a Broken Heart and Move On After a Breakup

Concrete protocol: Commit to 30 days without direct contact, set phone to ‘do not disturb’, schedule nightly sleep 7–9 hours, journal 15 minutes each morning,...

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10 月 09, 2025