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Irina Zhuravleva 是一名心理学家和记者,在这两个领域都有超过 15 年的经验。她的职业生涯始于临床心理学家,专攻人际关系咨询和情感健康。获得心理学博士学位后,Irina 发现自己热衷于讲故事,于是转行从事新闻工作。她曾在多家知名杂志担任专栏作家,撰写有关心理健康、个人成长和社会问题的文章。

伊琳娜还著有两本探讨心理学与现代生活交汇点的畅销书。在写作的同时,她还继续提供私人咨询课程,并经常作为演讲嘉宾出席国际会议。她将科学专业知识与引人入胜的叙述融为一体的独特能力,使她成为心理学界和媒体界值得信赖的声音。

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Chemistry vs Compatibility – How to Choose a Partner
Chemistry vs Compatibility – How to Choose a Partner

Prioritize shared routines and measurable reliability over immediate spark – commit to a 6–12 month trial with quarterly checkpoints before moving in or pooling money....

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10 月 10, 2025
6 Things To Stop Doing If You’re Looking For Love
6 Things To Stop Doing If You’re Looking For Love

Immediate action: Implement a six-week rule: no new investment with anyone who signals inconsistency. Track each interaction’s date, duration and reciprocity; if reciprocity drops below...

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10 月 10, 2025
7 Building Blocks of a Great Relationship – Essential Tips for Lasting Love
7 Building Blocks of a Great Relationship – Essential Tips for Lasting Love

Schedule a weekly 30-minute check-in to raise issues, set one micro-goal, and reset emotional temperature; couples who make this a habit report clearer communication and...

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10 月 10, 2025
What to Text After the First Date to Show You’re Serious
What to Text After the First Date to Show You’re Serious

Within 24 hours, write one clear line naming a moment you liked and propose a next meet-up window. Example structure: a brief compliment, a concrete...

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10 月 10, 2025
How to Date When Your Partner Has Anxiety and Depression – Practical Tips for a Healthy, Supportive Relationship
How to Date When Your Partner Has Anxiety and Depression – Practical Tips for a Healthy, Supportive Relationship

Immediately implement measurable limits: record check-in times, use a timer for short calls, log any transfers of funds, note breaches with date stamps. If a...

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10 月 10, 2025
Men vs Women – How We Choose Our Partners — Dating Preferences, Criteria, and Relationship Dynamics
Men vs Women – How We Choose Our Partners — Dating Preferences, Criteria, and Relationship Dynamics

Act decisively: require explicit alignment on long-term goals; obtain concrete answers about children, finances, residence within six months; set a 60% match threshold across top...

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10 月 10, 2025
How to Maintain a Long-Distance Relationship When Moving Abroad – Essential Tips
How to Maintain a Long-Distance Relationship When Moving Abroad – Essential Tips

Agree on two fixed shared time blocks per week, scheduled at least two weeks in advance: one 30–45 minute weekday catch-up and one 90–120 minute...

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10 月 10, 2025
My Partner Is Friends With All Of His Exes – Navigating Boundaries and Trust
My Partner Is Friends With All Of His Exes – Navigating Boundaries and Trust

Act immediately: ask for written confirmation of the pause, list channels to be halted, set measurable review dates. If communication is continuing after the pause,...

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10 月 10, 2025
Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting – What is the Difference and How It Affects Your Family
Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting – What is the Difference and How It Affects Your Family

Choose shared-care if both adults agree on daily handoffs, can resolve disputes quickly, maintain a dedicated communication channel, create a stable environment, protect autonomy of...

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10 月 10, 2025
Is Being Single a Curse? Debunking Myths About Loneliness and Love
Is Being Single a Curse? Debunking Myths About Loneliness and Love

Act immediately: if you log fewer than three meaningful contacts per week for 30 days, call family twice weekly; join churches’ small groups monthly; volunteer...

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10 月 10, 2025
Why You’re Obsessed with Checking Your Partner’s Phone – How to Break the Unhealthy Habit
Why You’re Obsessed with Checking Your Partner’s Phone – How to Break the Unhealthy Habit

Do this now: Require biometric lock or unique passcode for sensitive apps, have both parties registered on shared account recovery, and block unknown app installs...

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10 月 10, 2025
New DU Study Highlights Risks of Living Together Before Engagement
New DU Study Highlights Risks of Living Together Before Engagement

Actionable step: Ask directly for one concrete word that signals commitment and a timeline; do not accept an unspoken assumption as sufficient. According to a...

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10 月 10, 2025
Moving to a New City Alone – It’s Less Lonely Than You Think
Moving to a New City Alone – It’s Less Lonely Than You Think

Sign up for two hobby-focused meetups and one exercising class within the first month: register on Meetup or a community center site, add calendar invites,...

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10 月 10, 2025
Should You Reach Out First on a Dating App? Icebreakers, Timing, and Tips
Should You Reach Out First on a Dating App? Icebreakers, Timing, and Tips

Practical recommendation: Initiate the initial message inside a 24-hour window; eharmonys data found reply rates near 38% during that span, dropping roughly 50% by the...

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10 月 10, 2025
How Long Should You Wait Before Sleeping With Someone New? Timing and Boundaries
How Long Should You Wait Before Sleeping With Someone New? Timing and Boundaries

Recommendation: aim for three condom-protected encounters spaced across 14–28 days prior to removing barriers or escalating physical intimacy; require documented STI testing for both parties,...

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10 月 10, 2025
Money Is the Top Strain on Relationships – How Financial Stress Impacts Couples
Money Is the Top Strain on Relationships – How Financial Stress Impacts Couples

Start with one concrete step: set monthly budget meeting with partner, agree to allocate 15 percent of take-home pay into joint savings, cap personal spend...

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10 月 10, 2025
Is It Better to Be Friends First? Benefits for Relationships and Dating
Is It Better to Be Friends First? Benefits for Relationships and Dating

start a three-month trial of intentional companionship before declaring exclusivity; a 2019 cohort of 1,200 people showed a 28% lower breakup rate within 12 months...

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10 月 10, 2025
Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Men? Break the Pattern
Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Men? Break the Pattern

Stop selecting partners to fill voids within: define two clear boundaries, state them within first week, and refuse contact when red flags come within initial...

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10 月 10, 2025
What It Means When a Woman Is in Her Masculine – Exploring Masculine Energy in Women
What It Means When a Woman Is in Her Masculine – Exploring Masculine Energy in Women

Data-driven observation shows people who were socialized as female tend to take more relational approaches at work, yet measurable differences between hormonal markers like estrogen...

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10 月 10, 2025
Not a Picture-Perfect Guy? Should You Still Marry Him
Not a Picture-Perfect Guy? Should You Still Marry Him

Recommendation: Enter a long-term commitment when concrete indicators align: three months of joint-budget coverage, documented conflict-resolution attempts, clear shared expectations about children and career, and...

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10 月 10, 2025
Quick Do’s and Don’ts for Online Dating – A Practical Guide to Safe, Successful Matches
Quick Do’s and Don’ts for Online Dating – A Practical Guide to Safe, Successful Matches

Verify identity before any off-site meeting. Require a live, straight-on five-second video while they are saying a unique phrase; run a reverse-image check within five...

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10 月 10, 2025
Dealing with Parents Who Oppose Your Engagement – A Practical Guide
Dealing with Parents Who Oppose Your Engagement – A Practical Guide

Bring two neutral witnesses, an agenda and physical copies of time-stamped messages, bank cheque images and IDs. If mukund or suthar are vocal family members,...

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10 月 10, 2025
How to Text After a Date – The Best Thank-You Messages
How to Text After a Date – The Best Thank-You Messages

Send a single-line opening that references a concrete moment from meet: mention a laugh you shared, cite a comment that felt nice, and add one...

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10 月 10, 2025
The Brutal Truth About Why You Should Almost Never Ask a Guy Out – A Practical Guide to Dating Etiquette
The Brutal Truth About Why You Should Almost Never Ask a Guy Out – A Practical Guide to Dating Etiquette

Biggest reason: persistent outreach signals chasing rather than attraction–data and example show that continuing past two messages often yields nothing and damages perceived value. In...

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10 月 10, 2025