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Irina Zhuravleva 是一名心理学家和记者,在这两个领域都有超过 15 年的经验。她的职业生涯始于临床心理学家,专攻人际关系咨询和情感健康。获得心理学博士学位后,Irina 发现自己热衷于讲故事,于是转行从事新闻工作。她曾在多家知名杂志担任专栏作家,撰写有关心理健康、个人成长和社会问题的文章。

伊琳娜还著有两本探讨心理学与现代生活交汇点的畅销书。在写作的同时,她还继续提供私人咨询课程,并经常作为演讲嘉宾出席国际会议。她将科学专业知识与引人入胜的叙述融为一体的独特能力,使她成为心理学界和媒体界值得信赖的声音。

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25 “We’ll Get Along If” Answers You Can Use on Hinge to Break the Ice and Boost Your Matches
25 “We’ll Get Along If” Answers You Can Use on Hinge to Break the Ice and Boost Your Matches

‘I’ll cook weekend brunch; playlist on me’ – signals commitment, playfulness, kitchen confidence. Try that line as opener for prompts asking about habits, favorite meals,...

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12 月 05, 2025
7 Ways to Improve Communication in Relationships – Practical Tips for Stronger Connections
7 Ways to Improve Communication in Relationships – Practical Tips for Stronger Connections

Begin daily 10-minute check-ins: each partner speaks assertive, truthful verbal statements while the other listens to them without interruption; use a visible timer, state whats...

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12 月 05, 2025
Main Character Energy – The Ultimate Guide to Being the Protagonist of Your Life
Main Character Energy – The Ultimate Guide to Being the Protagonist of Your Life

Start with a 30-minute no-phone morning block: research after pandemic found reduced mental rumination and measurable mood gains when social feeds were delayed until late...

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12 月 05, 2025
30 Surprising Psychology Facts You Probably Didn’t Know
30 Surprising Psychology Facts You Probably Didn’t Know

Recommendation: In the next 48 hours adopt three specific changes – reduce plate diameter by ~15%, post a two-rule decision board in visible workspace, and...

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12 月 05, 2025
Why We Shut Down When Big Emotions Flood Us – A Therapist Explains
Why We Shut Down When Big Emotions Flood Us – A Therapist Explains

Do this now: sit at a table, set a 3-minute timer, name three bodily sensations out loud, list three objective facts in the room, and...

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12 月 05, 2025
Personality vs Character – Key Differences, Traits, and Why They Matter
Personality vs Character – Key Differences, Traits, and Why They Matter

Apply two short instruments at interview: a 10-item extraversion scale plus a 12-item values inventory. Set cutoffs by role; for client-facing seats require extraversion >=60th...

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12 月 05, 2025
Understanding Denial as a Defense Mechanism – Causes, Effects, and Coping Strategies
Understanding Denial as a Defense Mechanism – Causes, Effects, and Coping Strategies

Start by naming the specific refusal to accept facts; record three observable facts, note processing in the mind, document any unconscious reinterpretations. Roots often lie...

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12 月 05, 2025
Cultivating Empathy – Practical Ways to Build Compassion
Cultivating Empathy – Practical Ways to Build Compassion

Protocol: schedule three 15-minute sessions per week with colleagues, friends, or partners; use a timer, allow the speaker 10 uninterrupted minutes, then ask two questions...

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12 月 05, 2025
6 Ways to Tell Someone They’re Being a Bad Friend, Therapists Say
6 Ways to Tell Someone They’re Being a Bad Friend, Therapists Say

Begin by naming the most recent moment that mattered: state exactly what happened, who was present, and the concrete effect on your energy and plans....

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12 月 05, 2025
How to Deal With Regret – A Practical Guide to Moving On
How to Deal With Regret – A Practical Guide to Moving On

Step 1: Set a 12-minute timer, write that single sentence, then list three specific corrective actions you can take in the next 72 hours. Concrete...

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12 月 05, 2025
How to Be More Organized – Simple Steps to Boost Productivity
How to Be More Organized – Simple Steps to Boost Productivity

Set a 15-minute evening routine now: spend 10 minutes cleaning high-traffic surfaces and 5 minutes writing the three single tasks that must get done first...

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12 月 05, 2025
How to Manage Emotions at Work Without Turning into a Robot
How to Manage Emotions at Work Without Turning into a Robot

Practice: inhale 4s – hold 4s – exhale 4s – hold 4s; repeat for four rounds, then resume tasks. Aim for 5–6 breaths per minute...

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12 月 05, 2025
I Feel Your Pain – Confessions of a Hyper-Empath – Coping with Empathy Overload
I Feel Your Pain – Confessions of a Hyper-Empath – Coping with Empathy Overload

Start a 3-step buffer now: name one sensation aloud, exhale for six counts, step back for two minutes. Repeat once per episode; record heart rate...

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12 月 05, 2025
9 Reasons Why Dating a Fellow Introvert Is Incredible
9 Reasons Why Dating a Fellow Introvert Is Incredible

Agree on a shared nightly “unwind” routine to become more attuned and preserve a steady connection without draining either person’s social energy. Measure behavior: cap...

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12 月 05, 2025
How to Overcome Social Anxiety – 8 Practical Exercises
How to Overcome Social Anxiety – 8 Practical Exercises

Begin with a five-minute daily approach task: initiate a one-minute conversation with a stranger, then add 30 seconds each week until the feeling of panic...

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12 月 05, 2025
Can an Empath and Narcissist Be in a Relationship? Boundaries and Dynamics
Can an Empath and Narcissist Be in a Relationship? Boundaries and Dynamics

Immediate action: Start setting explicit limits during the first three months; state non-negotiable values, list behaviors that constitute mistreatment, decide consequences; document incidents with dates;...

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12 月 05, 2025
How Friendship Changes Across Your 20s, 30s, 40s, and Beyond
How Friendship Changes Across Your 20s, 30s, 40s, and Beyond

Start with a rule: pick three people at core; block two 20-minute slots weekly for short calls or voice notes with them; use text for...

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12 月 05, 2025
Dating Someone with ADHD – Essential Tips for a Healthy Relationship
Dating Someone with ADHD – Essential Tips for a Healthy Relationship

Install a large wall calendar or a shared app, choose one daily priority the night before, and set three alarms (day, hour, ten minutes) to...

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12 月 05, 2025
Don’t Believe Everything You Think Expanded Edition – Key Takeaways
Don’t Believe Everything You Think Expanded Edition – Key Takeaways

Immediate recommendation: Apply three simple шаги now: label automatic cognition as недомыслия, externalize the item by naming the pattern, then test factual support within five...

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12 月 05, 2025
Emotions and Organs – A Deep Connection in Mind-Body Health
Emotions and Organs – A Deep Connection in Mind-Body Health

Established randomized trials, meta-analyses have quantified autonomic change after paced breathing; HRV increases of 10–20% reported in healthy adults, salivary cortisol drops near 12% in...

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12 月 05, 2025
Meet the Introverted Extrovert – The Often Forgotten Ambivert Personality Type
Meet the Introverted Extrovert – The Often Forgotten Ambivert Personality Type

Start by tracking daily energy level on a 1–10 scale before and after each social engagement; record contents of every event (duration, number of people,...

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12 月 05, 2025
New Publication by a Member of The Sensitive Man – Exclusive Post
New Publication by a Member of The Sensitive Man – Exclusive Post

Recommendation: implement a 10-minute detached reflection session, a 12-point nutrition checklist, and one prosocial action per day. Measure baseline mood and objective markers before start:...

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12 月 05, 2025
Happy Crying – Why Does It Happen and What It Means
Happy Crying – Why Does It Happen and What It Means

Recommendation: Treat tears during elation as a predictable neurochemical response; document the precise triggers before deciding on any clinical step. This reaction involves measurable shifts...

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12 月 05, 2025
10 Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man – How to Tell If He’s Not Ready for Love
10 Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Man – How to Tell If He’s Not Ready for Love

Recommendation: Implement a 90-day rule: limit emotional investment to relationships that produce at least three consistent acts of engagement within six weeks; otherwise, redirect time...

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12 月 05, 2025