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Sometimes people fling the word “privilege” like an accusation — a put-down that lets the accuser feel morally superior and even use shame to discredit...

If the grown-ups around you ignored you as a child—if they were neglectful, brushed you off, or simply absent—you might still carry the experience of...

Başkalarının ihtiyaçlarını sürekli olarak kendi ihtiyaçlarınızın önüne koyma kalıbına psikolojik bir etiket konulmuştur: Onların sevildiğini hissetme yollarını önceliklendirir, ... kaçınırsınız.

Discover what cuffing season means, why it happens in winter, and how people form short seasonal relationships when the weather gets colder.

Practical Steps to Take — Without Pretending You’re Alone That story is a reminder: you can protect your happiness, but you don’t have to pretend...

Sometimes it seems unavoidable to get involved with a narcissist — they can be extremely manipulative, and those early stages of a relationship often feel...

The quickest route to make an avoidant fixate is simple: seize the frame. They’re not mysterious geniuses — they follow a script. While they play...

Hey — let’s cut straight to it. If you want the healthiest relationship possible, ask one simple question: “How can we work together so both...

It’s obvious that the way people were cared for by their parents in childhood shapes how they form romantic bonds later in life — that’s...

Two things can be true at once: sarcasm, passive-aggression, and shouting are unhealthy ways to ask for what you need, and yet there was likely...

Çocukken istismar veya ihmal deneyimi yaşayan birçok kişi için tıbbi randevulara gitmek yoğun bir şekilde tetikleyici olabilir. Kliniklerin sorduğu sorular, fiziksel muayeneler,...

In life you’ll encounter people who will mistreat you, and your instincts will warn you that their behavior is wrong and that you need to...

I’m about to drop something that may land hard: if you assume your avoidant ex simply moved on without a care, you’re mistaken. Completely mistaken....

Remember that deceiving your partner, whatever the reason, wounds them and undermines the foundation of trust in the relationship. You might tell yourself you’re sparing...

Alright — straight to the point. You find yourself checking your phone again. Staring at the screen, waiting for those three little dots to appear....

What you’re going through is not a typical romantic rollercoaster. It’s a calculated psychological scheme. The avoidant person in your life doesn’t stumble into push-and-pull...

hey gerçekten partide bana konuşma şeklinizden dolayı çok değersiz hissettim Ah, siz... sizde neyi kastediyorsunuz?

Kaçıran eski sevgilinin zihninden ne geçer, sessizliğiniz onların beklediğinden çok daha uzun sürdüğünde? Gelin bunu keşfedelim - dürüstçe, tatlandırmadan...

Pek çok ilişkinin neden ayrılık veya boşanmayla sonuçlandığını bilmek ister misiniz? Genellikle bunun nedeni, insanların kendilerini gerçekten tanımamalarıdır...

This is what happens when you fall in love with an avoidant person. At first there’s an intense sense of belonging, like finally finding something...

This question comes up all the time, so let’s clarify how to approach it. Both partners have responsibilities in a relationship; each person has a...

For a long time I thought there was something deeply strange and wrong with me. I often felt cut off from other people, unable to...

Neredeyse kimse bunu fark etmez ama hayatınız size karşı hisleri olmayan insanları kovalama, bağlanmaktan kaçınma döngüsüne girerse ve siz...

Eğer kaçınmacı bir bağlanma örüntüsüne sahip biri böyle yapıyorsa, bu sana karşı sadık oldukları anlamına gelir — ve büyük ihtimalle beklentilerin dışındadır. Çoğu...