Irina Zhuravleva

Specific timeline: stop sending any messages for 7 days, then send a single concise note; if no reply within another 7 days, stop reaching out....

Declare one non-negotiable rule now: “I will not respond to messages after 9:00 PM.” State it once, apply the consequence immediately, record the date and...

Método: llevar un registro de 30 días de comportamientos en lugar de basarse en impresiones. Programar tres verificaciones en la vida real: un recargo rutinario en algún lugar desconocido, una noche con amigos,...

Practice 10 minutes of journaling each morning: list three items you accept and one task you will stop pushing today. Measure progress with outcomean rating:...

Practice three targeted micro-interventions weekly: two 15-minute role-plays and one 10-minute reflective journal session aimed at converting passive-aggressive responses into concise, nonthreatening statements; expected outcome...

Do a daily 10-minute labeling routine: 5 minutes to name bodily sensations, 5 minutes to map the triggering thought and intended action; repeat for 30...

Recommendation: Make a decision inside 72 hours: tell that person whether you want exclusivity, casual continuation, or to end contact; if your goal is girlfriend...

Schedule a 45-minute one-on-one check-in every Wednesday evening. Use a visible timer and this fixed agenda: 5 minutes: emotional temperature; 15 minutes: two recent wins;...

Sea explícito antes de una mayor intimidad: divulgue un resumen conciso dentro de las primeras 48 horas después de que ocurra un momento íntimo o, si ya estaba...

Start a focused exposure routine immediately: choose one mildly stressful social task per week, perform three short exposures weekly, log anticipatory anxiety on a 0–10...

Set a hard deadline and require a measurable step. State a six-week timeline for a clear action – exclusivity, a move-in date, or a concrete...

Measure speaking balance: aim to speak no more than 40% of the minutes in a 10-minute exchange; run three daily 10-minute rounds with a timer...

Do this today: book a recurring 30‑minute slot, agree on two measurable goals (one around spending, one around trust), and commit to a single third‑party...

Recommendation: Disclose major mental-health diagnoses, current sexually transmitted infections, felony convictions, and ongoing debt before declaring exclusivity; reserve detailed childhood narratives and anecdotal past attractions...

Concrete routine: Respond within 24 hours, schedule three short interactions across one week, and limit initial calls to 30 minutes; doing so gives clear data...

Immediate recommendation: Remove shoes, electrical cords and loose cushions, and place two durable chew options (Kong Classic, Nylabone) in rotation every 48 hours; provide structured...

Regla concreta: no textos, ni likes, ni mensajes directos durante 10 días calendario; registrar la fecha de la última interacción, anotar cualquier respuesta dentro de las 48–72 horas, marcar...

Recommendation: Reserve two 20-minute tuning sessions per week; use the first for order-setting (tasks, finances, calendar), the next for expressing personal needs, vulnerability. Many couples...

Acciones inmediatas: si están viviendo por separado, establezcan un plan de 48 horas – congelen las tarjetas compartidas, cambien contraseñas y guarden copias físicas de identificaciones y llaves...

Choose a group that meets weekly in a consistent setting (6–8 people); give two concrete conversation prompts per session and schedule one follow-up within 48...

Recomendación: definir tres criterios objetivos para las decisiones en las relaciones íntimas, realizar una microprueba de 7 días y registrar los resultados diariamente. Empiece por escribir lo que importa sobre el compromiso,...

Acción inmediata: Responder una vez: “¿Buscas un cierre, amistad o algo más?” Mantén ese mensaje por debajo de 30 palabras, evita detalles nostálgicos y establece un límite...

Set a firm deadline: ask for an in-person date by day 14 and stop open-ended chatting if that plan isn’t reciprocal. If you have been...

Recomendación: Implementar tres rituales enfocados cada día: una revisión de 15 minutos sin distracciones, una carta escrita a mano dejada donde él la verá, un objetivo micro compartido que...