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Listen: marriage can sometimes feel even more isolating than single life, and it’s easy to be swept up in the emotions of the wedding day....

Sometimes people fling the word “privilege” like an accusation — a put-down that lets the accuser feel morally superior and even use shame to discredit...

If the grown-ups around you ignored you as a child—if they were neglectful, brushed you off, or simply absent—you might still carry the experience of...

There’s a psychological label for the pattern of constantly privileging someone else’s needs over your own: you prioritize the ways they feel loved, you dodge...

Discover what cuffing season means, why it happens in winter, and how people form short seasonal relationships when the weather gets colder.

Practical Steps to Take — Without Pretending You’re Alone That story is a reminder: you can protect your happiness, but you don’t have to pretend...

Sometimes it seems unavoidable to get involved with a narcissist — they can be extremely manipulative, and those early stages of a relationship often feel...

The quickest route to make an avoidant fixate is simple: seize the frame. They’re not mysterious geniuses — they follow a script. While they play...

Hey — let’s cut straight to it. If you want the healthiest relationship possible, ask one simple question: “How can we work together so both...

It’s obvious that the way people were cared for by their parents in childhood shapes how they form romantic bonds later in life — that’s...

Two things can be true at once: sarcasm, passive-aggression, and shouting are unhealthy ways to ask for what you need, and yet there was likely...

For many people who experienced abuse or neglect as children, going to medical appointments can be intensely triggering. The questions clinicians ask, the physical examinations,...

In life you’ll encounter people who will mistreat you, and your instincts will warn you that their behavior is wrong and that you need to...

I’m about to drop something that may land hard: if you assume your avoidant ex simply moved on without a care, you’re mistaken. Completely mistaken....

Remember that deceiving your partner, whatever the reason, wounds them and undermines the foundation of trust in the relationship. You might tell yourself you’re sparing...

Εντάξει — πάμε κατευθείαν στο θέμα. Βρίσκεστε και πάλι κοιτάζοντας το κινητό σας. Κοιτάζοντας την οθόνη, περιμένοντας να εμφανιστούν αυτές οι τρεις μικρές τελείες....

Αυτό που βιώνεις δεν είναι μια τυπική ρομαντική βουτιά. Είναι ένα υπολογισμένο ψυχολογικό σχέδιο. Το αποφεύγον άτομο στη ζωή σου δεν καταλήγει τυχαία σε μια σχέση άρσης και έλξης...

hey I felt really disrespected by the way you were speaking to me at the party earlier Oh you mean the same party where you...

Τι περνάει από το μυαλό ενός αποφευκτικού πρώην όταν η σιωπή σου διαρκεί πολύ περισσότερο από ό,τι περίμεναν; Ας το εξερευνήσουμε — ειλικρινά, χωρίς να το γλυκαίνουμε...

Θέλετε να μάθετε γιατί τόσο πολλές σχέσεις τελειώνουν σε χωρισμούς ή διαζύγους; Πολύ συχνά, οφείλεται στο ότι οι άνθρωποι δεν γνωρίζουν πραγματικά...

One of the major ways childhood trauma undermines the possibility of a healthy adult partnership is by freezing emotional growth. When caregivers threaten a child...

Αυτό είναι αυτό που συμβαίνει όταν ερωτεύεσαι ένα αποφευκτικό άτομο. Στην αρχή υπάρχει μια έντονη αίσθηση του ότι ανήκεις, σαν να βρίσκεις επιτέλους κάτι...

Αυτό το ερώτημα προκύπτει συνεχώς, οπότε ας διευκρινίσουμε πώς να το προσεγγίσουμε. Και οι δύο σύντροφοι έχουν ευθύνες σε μια σχέση· κάθε άτομο έχει μια...

For a long time I thought there was something deeply strange and wrong with me. I often felt cut off from other people, unable to...