Irina Zhuravleva

“Don’t go to bed angry,” “a good relationship means never having to say you’re sorry,” “your partner should complete you,” and “your relationship’s purpose is...

It’s common to believe that once a severe traumatic chapter ends, everything should return to normal. The reality is different: after trauma you’re often fragile—not...

I made a video joking about a husband who forgot his wife’s birthday, and someone commented, “maybe you should just remind them if it’s so...

The first time I ran across the phrase “emotional sobriety,” it shook me — not because I didn’t understand the words, but because it sounded...

There’s a clear and crucial distinction between beneficial stress and harmful stress — and the main difference lies in duration, intensity and timing. Beneficial stress...

“Hey, can I borrow your phone for a minute? I need to look something up.” “Where’s your phone?” “It’s in the other room.” “Can I...

Ένα σημαντικό ζήτημα που επηρεάζει αμέτρητους ανθρώπους είναι να μένουν σε σχέσεις που, ρεαλιστικά, έχουν λίγες πιθανότητες να ευδοκιμήσουν. Πολλοί παραμένουν κολλημένοι επειδή κανείς δεν τους έχει υπενθυμίσει καθαρά...

Το πιο λυπητερό κομμάτι του τραύματος της παιδικής ηλικίας, για μένα, είναι να βλέπω τόσους πολλούς ανθρώπους να κινούνται μέσα από τη ζωή με ένα πληγωμένο πνεύμα — την αυτοπεποίθησή τους, την ελπίδα τους, και...

Εντάξει — ας μπούμε στα πράγματα τώρα. Θέλεις να μάθεις ποια είναι η πιο καταστροφική μορφή απόρριψης για τον αποφευκτικό-απαρνητή άνθρωπο στο...

Δεν κυνηγάς κάποιον επειδή είναι εγγενώς εξαιρετικός. Τον κυνηγάς επειδή συγκρατεί τον εαυτό του. Όσο πιο σπάνη η στοργή τους, τόσο πιο έντονη γίνεται η λαχτάρα σου. Αν...

Work is one of the worst places to fall for someone you can’t—or shouldn’t—pursue. It can destroy your happiness, harm theirs, devastate your spouse, and...

Φανταστείτε να σας πουν ότι μερικές φορές η πιο στοργική επιλογή για μια σχέση είναι να σταματήσετε να κάνετε σεξ για λίγο — ακούγεται αντιφατικό, αλλά...

The uncomfortable reality is that “nice guys” often don’t spark attraction in women. I know how that sounds, so hear me out for a minute...

Some of the most dangerous people you’ll ever encounter are the ones who never raise their voice. They won’t slam doors or hurl curses. Instead,...

Ending up in harmful partnerships is a common and painful outcome for people who experienced abuse and neglect growing up. When mistreatment was normal in...

Here’s the reality: people with an avoidant attachment style aren’t bad at loving — they’re simply more discreet about it. Society often labels them as...

Listen: being in a relationship with an avoidant man is rarely what it appears to be. The real risk isn’t that he doesn’t feel love...

Let’s be honest: you’re here because something about this situation feels wrong. You finally find someone who awakens you, you lower your defenses, you begin...

Okay — let’s begin 2023 by reminding ourselves of some basic truths about relationships. One: you deserve respect, kindness, appreciation, consideration and someone who genuinely...

Oh my God, babe — if we buy it today they’ll throw an extra 25% off on top of the 50% they already had, okay?...

I will never forget the day I finally heard a name for the collection of odd emotions, behaviors, and repeating mistakes that I couldn’t seem...

I’m a little ashamed at how simple it turned out to be to revive my wife’s sexual interest. This wasn’t about trickery — I never...

To spare you the long email: if you’re in a relationship with a man and you constantly feel invisible, unheard, neglected, or consistently dismissed, the...

I made a video about how tone-deaf it can feel when a man walks in after a half-hour commute and then expects another half hour...