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Dobře, opravte mě, pokud se mýlím, ale zdá se, že když neustále dělás pro partnera, který to nikdy nevrací...

Když jsem poprvé začal vyučovat o traumatizaci, nikdy jsem si nepředstavoval, že jednou z nejtrvalejších a nejvýraznějších následků dětství zneužívání a zanedbávání bude také...

Raná fáze romantického vztahu – zejména po dlouhém období samoty nebo když se bojíte, že nikdy nebudete skutečně milováni – se může zdát vše pohlcující....

Paradoxem emocionální nedostupnosti je, že se můžete tak úplně uzavřít, až ztratíte povědomí o tom, že jste vypnuti v...

I could not understand why, once I left college and began hunting for my first job, doors kept closing on me. And even when I...

Have a question for you: have you ever been in a relationship where the moment you stop messaging, stop obsessively checking your phone, stop chasing...

When people who have endured psychological trauma begin dating, it’s easy for them to drift away from the present and construct elaborate interpretations about why...

So the other day I had a truly awful emotional meltdown — it was brutal. I got into a heated argument with a vendor I...

I made a video suggesting that couples should each ask their partner for a few concrete actions they could take this week that would genuinely...

Doesn’t it often feel like men retreat to “I don’t know” as a default answer? A friend was describing the most recent argument he had...

Some people insist that cancel culture is a myth or even a necessary corrective, and curiously those voices are often the same ones who have...

The strangest paradox of avoidant attachment is this: the very behaviors that pushed them away are often what they will exhibit once you stop striving...

People who genuinely love you and care about your wellbeing will pay attention to what you require from the relationship in order to feel safe,...

You’ve tried everything to keep them close, haven’t you? You send the first messages. You forgive without insisting on explanations. You tuck away your own...

“Productivity crash” is a phrase I coined to describe a recurring pattern I witness frequently: people who survived childhood trauma can achieve extraordinary feats—performing almost...

Have you ever gone quiet with someone and found yourself obsessing over what’s running through their mind? I’m talking about the person you’re seeing —...

You can sense him pulling back. It starts small: texts that once arrived quickly now take hours; plans that used to be made now evaporate...

Can we start practicing a simple rule: if you feel something, say it? Men, in particular, often struggle with this — acting as if our...

there is a powerful link between childhood abuse and neglect—especially emotional neglect—and a recurring, painful pattern in adulthood of investing all your affection into an...

When parents are so wrapped up in themselves that they barely notice or truly know their children, it’s common for those children to grow up...

Why is it that even when you pitch in around the house she still seems unappreciative? That’s an important question and there are several possible...

Zdá se, že se v posledních letech všichni pouštějí do slova dysregulace – ale na co se to vlastně vztahuje? A co můžete dělat, když se to stane...

Co by se mohlo stát, kdybychom pozvali lidi do laboratoře a požádali je, aby psali o bolestné události, o které nikdy plně nemluvili...

Kdokoli, kdo se zapletl s vyhýbavým partnerem, pravděpodobně zažil dezorientující posun ve vztahu: teplo ochladne, konverzace se stanou strohé a drobné...